Here's How Couples Need To Prepare Themselves Before Planning A Baby

Are You Planning A Baby? Be Prepared For These 5 Changes In Your Life

 

Tavishi Dogra
Written by: Tavishi DograUpdated at: Sep 09, 2020 14:04 IST
Here's How Couples Need To Prepare Themselves Before Planning A Baby

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Starting a family or family planning is not rocket science! But this needs your careful decision making! Figure out and try what you want from your future, as it will help you to know about family planning. Planning for the family is achieved with the use of different natural contraceptive methods, and in cases of fertility, sometimes treatments could also help. Are you planning a baby? If yes, then, firstly, you have to pay attention to these many things. By the way, do you know that parenting changes your life, as you may have to abandon many habits? After family planning, if you are prepared for these 5 changes (in advance), then you will hardly face any problem in the changed scenario.

BABY

  • How upbringing affects children? If you are done with family planning, then you must make sure to change some of your habits. The first thing is to avoid fighting with your partner in front of the child. We know that it is tough to keep your anger under control, but do you want your children to learn the same? Children catch anything very quickly, whether it is wrong or right. Never mispronounce or misbehave in front of the child. Therefore, you must be ready to keep away your anger or resentment in front of your child. This will help your child learn good things quickly and not any bad habits. 

  • Early to bed and early to rise: The most difficult time for new parents is at night, i.e. their time to sleep. Because at night, the children get up due to some of the other reason and make an immediate difference to the sleep of the parents. At such times parents often become irritable or get angry at each other. But you (with your partner) need to be ready to face this problem because your child will bother you at night. For this, you have to be prepared in advance!

  • Savings for your baby: Apart from all this, when you become parents, you need to think about many things for your child and your family. It becomes essential to save money for raising and teaching your child. For this, you can stop your wasteful expenditure. You can reduce your expensive things habits. You put that money in your savings, which can later come in handy for your child.

PREGNANCY
  • Physical relationship: When you become a parent, you may have to abstain from the sexual activities (able to form any relationship) with your partner. You might be so busy handling your child that you will face difficulties to focus on your sex life. So it would be best if you were ready to face this thing too. You should strengthen your relationship with your partner before family planning. 
  • Less partying more chilling: Are you fond of going to parties? If yes, then you need to end this for a few days. Also, consuming alcohol or smoking cigarettes at parties is not only good for the health of your child as well. So try not to go to parties so that your child can play at home with you. 

Conclusion: Do you know that natural methods of family planning are not entirely trustworthy? Couples should understand the importance of restricting the number of pregnancies and even the need to provide a gap of time between pregnancies.

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